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1,000 Families Project:
The York Family

An old-school, smartphone-free lifestyle works for this family of four

I don’t think it’s a jaw-dropping piece of information, but when I mention to people in casual conversation that we don’t own a cell phone, their mouths inevitably gape open. “B-b-but how do you function?” they stammer. Then they rationalize: “You don’t have one, but your husband does, right?”

Nope. No cell phone for either of us. Also no video game system, no Facebook and no Netflix (on family movie nights, we happily watch DVDs and yes, even VHS tapes).

I’m not against technology or mobile phones, and I don’t have a problem with others having them, but for now, it works for our family to be smartphone-free. My husband is a teacher and I’m at home, so land lines serve our communication needs. We’re not completely in the Dark Ages as we do own an iPad and two home computers (admittedly, one of them is from 2001).

There are a few advantages to our choice, and a big one is the financial aspect. I don’t know what it costs to outfit a family with the latest devices and an elaborate plan of calling, texting and data, but I imagine we’re saving quite a bit by not paying for that every month.

Another plus is that it minimizes the distractions when we’re with our two boys (ages eight and four). We take them on typical family outings such as children’s museums, live sporting events and to zoos. While we’re there, however, I’m constantly amazed by the number of parents who are heads-down into their phones. It’s like they’re there in body, but not in spirit. A child will point out something excitedly, only to be met with an empty “mm-hmm” from the parent who is scrolling through an app.

With all the concerns about screen time and inactivity for kids today, I’m grateful that we have two fewer screens in our lives than most people. Someday, as our boys get older and we’re off in separate directions for various sports and activities, it’s likely that we’ll have to relent and join the world of mobile devices. When we do, I’m sure we’ll appreciate the convenience and connectivity. Still, I’ll be glad that we chose to put it off for as long as humanly possible.

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Kristi York is a freelance writer for ParentsCanada, Running Room Magazine, and momstown.ca. View all posts by

'1,000 Families Project:
The York Family' have 2 comments

  1. December 10, 2014 @ 9:05 pm Carol York

    Kristi and BJ are such awesome parents. We are so fortunate to have children that are so involved with the day to day needs of their children. They make do with the simpler things in life and get so much enjoyment out of their boys. When BJ worked in the business world a smart phone was crucial for the job. But in his new chosen career he is so relieved and less stressed once he no longer is plugged in 24/7. They are a very organized family and thus are able to consolidate plans and activities ahead of time and do without the last minute calls and texts. We are so proud of them . Reg and Carol York (Parents)


  2. January 27, 2015 @ 2:43 pm Jen

    Kristi’s approach to writing appears to be similar to her approach to parenting. She consistently keeps the really important things in focus. Her and her husband value the boys and keep a realistic and refreshing approach to being parents (enjoy time with the cool little people that live with you). This is a mind-set I really appreciate.


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