1,000 Families Project: Aurora and Family

1000 Families Project: Aurora & Family

This mom and co-creator of a new comedy web series for CBC Punchline tells us why one child is the best choice for her family.

So when my husband and I were first envisioning kids, we naturally wanted to have a family like the ones we grew up in; I have four sisters and he has three. “Let’s have four kids!” we cried happily.

Then we had one, and realized how sadly ill-equipped we were to handle the mental trauma of caring for a tiny helpless human. When our son was six months old, we were half-heartedly talking about having a second, and Kris said, “What if we didn’t have another one and things just…got easier?”

I should explain that both of us are full time actors and the concept of regular hours and income is so foreign to us as to be laughable. It’s hard to reconcile late night improv shows with 2 a.m. feedings, and when you’re not really sure where the money for next month’s daycare is coming from, it does something to your psyche. Other people seem to have their ducks in a row, but we needed a lot of help with ours.

1,000 Families Project: Aurora & Family

And thankfully, we got it—from our extended family of Grandmas, aunts, Grandpas, cousins, neighbours, and a lineup of generous friends. That’s really the family that has allowed us to keep our lives as downtown artists. So many, many times I’ve sent out a Hail Mary Facebook message to see if anyone can be with our little guy while I have a callback and my husband records a radio spot. My writing partner, Nadine, has come over more times than I care to count to help us out, and my son loves her and always greets her with a hug. Luckily he’s a social, easygoing kid who has no problem enjoying an evening with another one of his “lady friends”—at this point he has many future girlfriends lined up.
1,000 Families Project: Aurora and Family

And we’ve also deliberately looked for dudes to spend time with him. I’ve come home to find our good friend Greg chilled out with the boy on the couch, both of them happily shouting at Lego Star Wars. And here’s a shout out to the friends at auditions who kindly agreed to watch the stroller for five minutes while I ran in to try to sell cereal. We try to spread around our requests so that no one person feels put upon, but believe me, there is a special place in heaven for the friend who says, “Please ask me again, I love hanging out with your son.”

1,000 Families Project: Aurora and Family

1,000 Families Project: Aurora and Family

Many times I’ve felt a pang of guilt, that I’ve denied my son the company of siblings because I’m not organized or disciplined enough. But then I remember that family can be bigger than that—and that my son has so many, many people who love him. Will he wish he had someone to complain to about us when he’s older? Probably. But he can choose from a long line of people who love him, and who might listen more because they don’t have to live with his farts.

1,000 Families Project: Aurora and Family

Editor’s Note: Aurora and Nadine currently star in a brand-new comedy web series for CBC Punchline called Newborn Moms. You can watch the series here and get a little preview below!

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Aurora Browne

About

Aurora Browne is an alumna of the Toronto Second City Mainstage and member of the acting ensemble in Toronto’s celebrated Videocabaret. Television and film credits include Robocop, Lars and the Real Girl, The Ron James Show, Defiance, The LA Complex, Comedy Inc, and Comedy
Now. She was named Best Female Improviser at the 2008 Canadian Comedy Awards, and in 2013 won Best Ensemble Acting with Videocabaret’s The War of 1812. Aurora earned a BFA in Acting from York University.


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