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Podcast Episode 205: Where We Went Wrong with Kids and Math

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Thanks so much for coming by to check out Episode 205 of The New Family Podcast, where we talk to an innovative educator about a better way to support our kids to learn and excel in math.

At dining room tables and homework desks all over the place, math can be the source of a lot of drama and frustration. Approaches to math curriculum have shifted since we were in school, complicating our efforts to help our kids when they get stuck. The new math? The new new math? I’m not sure which we’re on now, but it does seem as though kids are may be missing some of the basic building blocks that help them tackle some of the trickier concepts and equations.

To help us sort this all out, I’m delighted to welcome my guest Vanessa Vakharia back to the show today. Vanessa is the founder of a unique tutoring facility called The Math Guru here in Toronto. She’s a teacher with a Bachelor of Commerce and a Masters in Mathematics Education, and she’s a leading expert on engaging kids with STEM topics. She’s also now the author of a wonderful new math workbook for kids Math Hacks: Cool Tips + Less Stress = Better Marks.

Here are some resources related to this episode:

Math Hacks: Cool Tips + Less Stress = Better Marks

The Math Guru website

Vanessa’s Instagram

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What Vanessa hopes kids will get out of using her book

“I think what inspired me to write the book is all the stuff I’ve been seeing with not only elementary kids, to be honest, but with older kids and adults, too. Just really noticing over my past 10 years as a teacher and tutor that there are certain concepts that kids hate and adults still don’t understand. My students and I have developed really great ways of decoding and talking about these topics so they’re not stressful. I just wanted to share them. We need to stop freaking out every time we see a fraction. So that was the first thing. I wanted to present these concepts in a really fun and non-threatening way to once and for all debunk the myths that these are like the little demons of math.

But also, a really big thing for me has been the holistic approach to math that I really don’t think we take… Math anxiety has definitely been a really big conversation over the past few years. We’re taking such a specific approach to math education in classrooms where kids aren’t taught how to destress, how to study, how to do homework, how to figure out how to be their best selves in the classroom. We don’t teach that stuff and it’s such an intrinsic part of being a student.

So I wanted to create a book where everything is in that book. Where you could be studying fractions, freak out about them, and then flip back to the previous chapter where there were all these tips on what to do if you’re freaking out about fractions. I think that’s so key. We’re at a point in life where anxiety is a big problem and we need mindfulness techniques and we need to learn strategy and I think those are some of the major things that are missing from our education systems.

I know it sounds crazy to say but I really feel like the lack of confidence and the anxiety that kids often get in a math classroom at a young age — and I see this with so many adults — that it really transfers to later in their lives, this little piece of insecurity that they carry with them. And I think that we can prevent that. If so many of the adults I know had had different mathematical experiences that had made them feel better about themselves, I really think they would be more confident people today. This book makes you feel like you are great at math no matter what and it’s all about figuring out your mathematical superpowers. And that’s what life is like. It’s about figuring out what ours are, not feeling that we don’t have the ones we are supposed to.”

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Brandie Weikle

About Brandie Weikle

Brandie is a long-time parenting editor, writer and spokesperson. Most recently editor-in-chief of Canadian Family magazine, Brandie has also been the parenting and relationships editor for the Toronto Star, founding editor of two Toronto Star websites, and an editor for Today's Parent. Brandie is a single mother of two in Toronto and a frequent television and radio guest on parenting topics. A former digital director at House & Home Media, she also consults on digital audience engagement. Contact her here. View all posts by